Etiquette for visitors

Quick answer

• Be polite with po: adding 'po' to a sentence shows respect, especially to older people.
• Dress modestly in churches: cover shoulders and knees, and keep beachwear for the beach.
• Keep your cool: raising your voice or shaming someone in public causes deep embarrassment (hiya).
• Tipping: appreciated but not required; many restaurants add a service charge.
• Ask first: before photographing people, especially in Indigenous communities and at religious events.

Filipinos are known for their hospitality, and visitors are rarely judged harshly for small mistakes. Still, knowing a few customs helps you connect with people and avoid awkward moments.

Greetings and respect

• Use “po” and “opo”. Adding “po” makes a sentence polite: “Salamat po” (thank you). “Opo” is a respectful “yes”. Use them with anyone older than you, and you will win smiles.
• The mano. Younger Filipinos greet elders by taking their hand and pressing it gently to their forehead. You don’t need to do it, but it is lovely to understand when you see it.
• Ate and Kuya. People often call a woman “Ate” (older sister) and a man “Kuya” (older brother), even strangers, such as a waiter or driver. It is friendly and respectful.
• Smile. A smile and a nod go a long way.

Saving face

Hiya, a sense of shame or propriety, matters a lot. Raising your voice, losing your temper or criticising someone in front of others causes real embarrassment. If something goes wrong, stay calm, speak privately and politely, and you are far more likely to get help.

Filipinos may also avoid saying a direct “no”. A vague “maybe” or “we’ll see” can mean no.

In churches and mosques

• Dress modestly: cover shoulders and knees.
• Be quiet during Mass, and don’t walk around taking photos while a service is going on.
• In mosques, remove your shoes, and women should cover their hair.

Eating

• “Kain tayo!” (“Let’s eat!”) is a common, warm invitation, even if you are just walking past. A polite “Salamat po, busog pa ako” (thanks, I’m still full) is fine.
• Fork and spoon. Filipinos eat with a spoon in the right hand and a fork in the left. In some places, eating with your hands (kamayan) is normal.
• Share. Food is usually ordered for the table.

Money and shopping

• Tipping is appreciated but not required. Check for a service charge on restaurant bills.
• Haggle gently at markets, with a smile. Don’t bargain in malls or at shops with marked prices.
• Carry small notes. Change can be hard to find in small shops and on tricycles. See our guide to money and cards.

Gestures and quirks

• Pointing with the lips. Filipinos often point by pursing their lips in a direction.
• “Psst!” is a common, not rude, way to get someone’s attention.
• Raised eyebrows can mean “yes” or “hello”.

Respect people and places

• Ask before taking photos of people, especially in Indigenous communities and at religious events.
• Don’t touch or climb on heritage structures or sacred sites, such as the hanging coffins of Sagada.
• Leave no trace on beaches and reefs.

Learn a few words before you go. See our guide to Filipino words and phrases.

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Frequently asked questions

What does 'po' mean?

It is a small word that adds politeness and respect. 'Salamat po' means 'thank you' in a respectful way. 'Opo' is a polite 'yes'.

Should I tip in the Philippines?

It is appreciated but not expected. Check the bill for a service charge; if there is none, around 10 percent is generous in restaurants. Small tips for porters, guides and boat crew are welcome.

Is haggling okay?

In markets and with some tricycle drivers, a little friendly bargaining is normal. In malls, shops with price tags and restaurants, prices are fixed.

What is 'Filipino time'?

A joking term for running late to social events. For tours, flights and ferries, be on time.

How should I dress?

Light, casual clothes are fine almost everywhere. Cover up in churches and mosques, and in conservative areas of Mindanao.